Because after getting married and busy with work, family affairs and children, couples such as loss of intimacy and creativity on the bed.
"Pleasure and enthusiasm will decline over time. Till at one point, there will be no foreplay. Fatigue and stress has been weighing up his sex life partner to be a mess," said sex expert Dr. Mahinder C. Watsa.
"It is estimated there is a decrease in sexual activity by as much as 65 percent on couples who often complain about a number of things. Working long hours, hectic life and living in a small house with a child who 'forced' to sleep with their parents are a number of reasons for the decline in sex activity in partner , "said psychologist, Seema Hingorranny.
Even if there are couples who are trying to maintain a routine of making love, they would no longer as enthusiastic at the beginning of the wedding. It will just be a habit but not close friends, both physically and emotionally.
Moreover, decreased sexual activity can lead to depreciation of the relationship. "When this happens, both partners may be experiencing psychological problems and then came the desire to cheat. Fact one or both partners will be sunk in a depression if you do not have sex for a long time," said Hingoranny as quoted Timesofindia.
To that end, both partners need to be equally working hard to resolve the issue. Dr. Watsa also suggested that couples spend time apart to continue the sex and intimacy. But couples should ensure that their sexual activity is not just a boring routine.
"Mornings are always a great time to have sex, especially since both partners are still fresh. Alternatively Sunday afternoon when the conditions you and your partner are very relaxed. Addition, throughout the day on a weekend night you can also use to date and restore intimacy together, "advises Dr. Wasta.
Because with the condition 'stuck' like this are usually a couple who have been married for a few years, experts believe at least these couples had higher levels of trust and familiarity or a certain familiarity that can help them to share about various aspects of sexuality with each other.
For example, with a variety of sexual fantasies and then develop their own methods of sex as what it wants to be tried by both partners so exciting sexual activity again.
Consider also other tips to restore intimacy couples start having sex rarely due to busy work, for example:
- Forget it if you are a married couple for a while. Berimajinasilah that you are having an affair with someone else, which is your own spouse.
- Create your own space and time to sexual activity. Keep children away from your bedroom at special times have you both decide it. You or your partner will get a distinct advantage if you can spend quality time together.
- Change the appearance of being as attractive as possible and make the couple remind you. Could you start by buying a nightgown unusual as lingerie or a pretty transparent and see how quickly he's aroused.
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